The road of life twists and turns and no two directions are ever the same. Yet our lessons come from the journey, not the destination.
Don Williams Jnr.
As an 11 year old I loved writing stories, and thanks to some very encouraging English/History teachers during my high school years, I followed that passion every spare moment I could. Towards the end of my schooling, in Careers, the advisor encouraged me to pursue a "proper" job - nursing, teaching, tourism, anything else - but there was only one job I wanted when I left school.
To be an author.
It took my father and many, many conversations to convince me I needed a job to support myself as I developed my craft and worked on getting published.
Wind the clock forward nearly twenty years, I have that dream career - I'm a published author who juggles her writing commitments in her spare time outside teaching (yes, a bit of a contradiction, if you know how involved teaching can be - LOL). How I imagined my life turning out and what actually occurred was a completely different journey than the one I'd expected as a young teen.
The theme of journeys and the significant lessons they teach us is woven all the way through ALLIANCE FORGED, the latest book in my Light Blade series. Both the hero and heroine, Varian and Kymora, start on very distinct paths, believing their journey to be well defined but it isn't long before they discover how quickly events can change and their paths twist in a direction they least expect.
Kymora's spent most of her life committed to the Temple in the service of the Lady, the religious deity who guides and protects all life. From acolyte to high priestess and spiritual leader of her people, it's a role she expects to spend her life fulfilling.
Varian, the warrior-leader of the Na'Chi, a half-human half-demon race, has fought to keep his people from being hunted down and killed by the Na'Reish (full blooded demons) and humans, both of whom consider them abominations because of their mixed blood heritage. The alliance offered by the humans will give the Na'Chi the safe haven they've always sought, but it means adapting and changing their ways, a compromise even Varian finds difficult to accept, yet he's determined to help his people through the transition, even if it means sacrificing his own personal happiness.
With the events that unfold, Kymora's faith is tested to its limits and she faces a life changing decision, one that could unsettle the alliance between the humans and Na'Chi, while Varian discovers he must confront and conquer personal demons to achieve what he most desires. Both are confronted by difficult decisions, ones that will alter their lives and determine their future.
It's funny how reality can be woven into fiction. The decisions I made took me down many pathways, taught me many lessons, none I really regret, and in hindsight appreciate a lot more. The wonderful thing about it is that I've achieved my dream because I made that journey.
And to see if they do, I have a giveaway copy of ALLIANCE FORGED for one lucky person. You just need to answer this question to go into the draw - what's been one of your most memorable journey's in life so far? A lesson learned? Was it a life altering event or decision? Or is it a special trip you took somewhere? Was it something you did for someone? Interpreting this question is as limitless as your imagination. I look forward to reading your answers!
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ALLIANCE FORGEDBook #2 of the Light Blade series
There is no mercy in the demon realm. No escape. In this place of desperation and conflict, anyone who is not purebred is virtually powerless. Until a blind priestess lays claim to a half-
breed warrior, body and soul…
Hunted and marked for death by Na’Reish demons for their half-blood heritage, the Na’Chi are searching for a new home—something an alliance offered by the human leader could provide. With both races divided by prejudice, when Light Blade rebels brutally attack the Na’Chi, the alliance seems doomed to fail.
Varian, leader of the Na’Chi, a hybrid race of gifted warriors, is cursed with the darker impulses of his demon heritage. Controlling the part of himself that craves the high of the battle is a struggle he’s afraid he’ll lose—until he meets Kymora Tayn, a priestess driven to serve her deity. While he’s unwilling to trust anyone outside his people, he finds himself drawn to Kymora’s strength and passionate nature, and discovers she has the power to calm the darkness inside him.
When the Na’Reish raid human territory for blood-slaves and kickstart a war, the key to the survival of both races—Na’Chi and human— is an alliance. However, when Kymora is kidnapped, pitting human against human, Varian realizes he must embrace his darker half, not only to save the alliance…but also the woman he loves.
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Kylie Griffin Bio

Kylie Griffin’s obsession with all things paranormal/fantasy started at an early age, when she used to imagine the jacaranda tree in her front yard was a spaceship used to defend the world from invading enemies. Writing stories seemed a natural extension to her childhood adventures.
Today, she’s a primary school teacher sharing her love for the written word with young children. In her spare time, she writes and reads all things paranormal.
Kylie lives in a small rural village in outback New South Wales, Australia, where she volunteers in a number of emergency service organizations in her local community. Visit her website at www.kyliegriffin.com
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One of my memorable journeys was trip to England and Scotland. While traveling there, there were a few locations where I got the very strong feeling of coming 'home.' That I belonged there or been there before. I live in the US and haven't experienced anything like that in any of the states that I have visited.
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Wulf, it was exactly like that for me when I visited Scotland!!! My ancestors are from the Isle of Skye (from the clan McLeod) and I made a point of visiting the "family" castle while I was there. It was so like "coming home" it wasn't funny and one of the portraits of the Lady McLeod (circa 1600) was the spitting image of my Great Aunt! Eerie!!!
ReplyDeleteThanks for being the first to step up and good luck in the draw!
For me it was leaving home for the 1st time to study in NZ. A bit of a culture shock as I'm from Asia; a lot of growing up! Being independent & learning to be responsible, it was still a relief when I got my degree & came home. Nothing like home sweet home & family.
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Hey Linda! *waving* Thanks for following my blog tour! I hope you're enjoying the various interviews and snippets. :-)
DeleteI studied for 6 months (last year of teaching degree) in the USA when I was 18 and while our countries shared lots of similarities, you're right, there is nothing like returning home to familiar territory!
I shamelessly admit to hoping to win a copy of Alliance Forged! Trade paperback is way too expensive - the current conversion rate is more than 3x for my local currency - & I swear I will perish from anticipation if I had to wait for the mass market paperback version. : ) All the snippets are are so tantalizing. Pls keep them coming....!
DeleteOh, Linda, the currency conversion rate sucks, doesn't it? I'm sorry to hear this is the case for you, so I'll have my cats cross their claws for you (I need mine for typing Allegiance Sworn!) for extra luck in the draw!
DeleteI'm very glad to hear you're enjoying the snippets of ALLIANCE FORGED. It's been fun putting them together and trying not to double up on scenes, nor give too many reveals away. LOL
I've had many events that have shaped my life and made me grow in huge ways. The most vivid would be moving to another state at the age of 18 away from my very close family.
ReplyDeleteFinding my soul mate.
Having my two baby boys and handling the health problems they had/have.
And now my writing - a journey that will never end...hopefully.
Thanks for being here Kylie. Always love your posts.
Hi, Jodie, thanks for having me here! I love visiting!
DeleteSome very nice milestones there in your life's journey so far - especially the finding of your soul mate. :-) And here's to a long, adventure filled author-journey!!!
Memorable journey would be the trip I took when I was 18 and I was lucky enough to meet my husband.
ReplyDeleteAnother soul mate journey - I love hearing about this sort of thing! Thanks for sharing, ahz1.
Deletememorable journey in my life i think is what happen in my life from i was child till today and i'm very grateful for everything that i got in my life especially my mom and all my family :)
ReplyDeleteEli, thanks for following the blog tour. I hope you've enjoyed the posts and snippets of information about Alliance Forged!
DeleteSounds like you have a close family and lots of good memories of them.
thanks for such a great post and congrats on the newest release!
ReplyDeleteWhen I was 17, I was able to be an exchange student to Israel for 6 wks. It was amazing! Definitely want to go back :)
Uh oh, sounds like the travel bug has bitten you Erin! Nothing like a trip overseas to do that to you. My first journey did the same thing! LOL It was to the USA and, like you, I wanted to go back and have - twice!
DeleteThat would be having my kids about 10 yrs apart. They came when they wanted, not when I wanted, lol! You can't predict what will happen in life, so it's taught me to be more relaxed and go with the flow.
ReplyDeleteLaurie, that's definitely the attitude to have. I'm a bit of control freak - I like having things go to plan most times but I've learned to go with the flow and adapt.
DeleteI should know better (as I work with kids all day!). Not comfortable always with things not going to plan but not much I can do to control things outside my sphere of influence! :-)
It was a life changing event when I found out I had diabetes. I had to learn how to change every aspect of my life from how much sleep I got to what I could and couldn't eat. It's been a long journey to success but it has taught me a lot about how much every day means to me.
ReplyDeleteWow, that's a really significant life change and I love that you've found new meaning to every day. Do you know if your family or friends have also taken that on board after seeing it in you?
DeleteI would say it would have to be raising my kids. You always do without so they can have things and you are constantly learning things that you can do and can't do but I wouldn't change a thing
ReplyDeleteKids change your perspective in may things! LOL My sister and her DH are going through that at the moment with their first child. And to some extent I'm learning what it's like to have a young child in my life (I'm somewhat used to 5y.o. and up being a teacher but a real youngster is opening my eyes!).
DeleteAnd you're right when you say you learn to do without so the kids can have certain things - that's love! :-)
Thanks for sharing, Gale.
I would say it was when I decided to go back to college and get my Master's degree. I hadn't been to school in over 12 years and I was afraid I wouldn't be able to do it but I forced myself to sign up and once I started attending classes - I realized how much I had changed as a student and as a person. It was really a great experience and now I proudly have a 2nd degree.
ReplyDeleteWow, 12 years is a gap between doing something like that Maria but hats off to you for being determined to do it. I think in some ways as we get older we appreciate certain things (like education or training) more.
DeleteIt was trusting someone with my happiness. 35 years later I can say it definitely was a life altering experience!
ReplyDeleteOh Lisa, it sounds like you found your soul mate! How wonderful!!! Congratulations on 35 years, may you make it to twice that. :-)
DeleteEach event in my life is a memorable for me, the good and the bad. But the ones that stood out now was when i met and broke up with my ex-boyfriend.
ReplyDeleteSienny, you're right, the good and bad memories define us and the choices we make. Interesting how something as significant as a break up can stay in our memories a long time. It just shows how emotionally invested we were in the relationship - I really hope you also have some good times with your ex to balance out that not so pleasant memory.
DeleteFor me it was adopting my son and experiencing motherhood.
ReplyDeleteTore, that sounds like an amazing experience! I've friends who tried surrogacy to help out a family member - a huge decision for any couple, and while I know it's not quite like adoption, both show the heart of the one/s who take this road. :-)
DeleteThank God for good teachers! At least for yours that gave you the push to write =)
ReplyDeleteA pretty big question Kylie. I would have to say changing my major in college, it landed me a job working in a cancer center. Every day I get to see fighters, sometimes they win...sometimes they loose. But I get to be there for them each step of the way and I feel blessed because of it.
Lexi, that's an amazing job but you must find it so inspiring and rewarding most of the time. Hat off to you for being there with the patients and their families - I bet you've met some wonderful people.
DeleteThanks for sharing!
Yes I have, it is amazing see how facing death can strengthen people. Of course it sometimes breaks people too, but you just have too keep the strong people in mind.
DeleteThere have been some wonderful events shared so far - thank you to everyone who has commented, particularly with the really personal events. It's helped me to get to know you and I appreciate that. :-)
ReplyDeletelast week i and my family take a trip to an island.. we dont know much about that place... i'm a little bit scared because i dont know where i am.. bla bla... but when i arrived wow its a beautiful place, beach are so wow... its a memorable and unforgetable journey for me.. we had a great time in there.:D
ReplyDeleteAhh, an island holiday - now that would be a memorable moment. I'd love to find my own island and spend a week there with just the sounds and sights of a beach and an ocean. So restful.
DeleteMy oldest almost died when he was 9 months old caught a rare disease that closed off his throat coded in my arms...... he is now 5 years old and just has asthma as a result. But it makes you realize to enjoy every minute and tell the people you love that you love them everyday at least if not more.
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Woah, Tobi, now that's just sent a shiver down my spine. I'm so glad to hear your son is alive and well but what an event to go through make you realise that life is so precious (and short, in some cases). You're right about telling people you love them, especially family.
DeleteI had a brain aneurysm in 2007 and almost died. At the time, I had no idea what was going on. I just knew something wasn't right. I was very dizzy and nautcious. I had just gotten out of the shower and was on the bed getting dressed and I passed out. I kinda remember feeling like I was doing something and watching myself doing it. Then I opened my eyes and I had such a stabbing pain in my head. The next day I did go to my family doctor and saw the medical assistant who said I had vertigo. The next day I still wasn't getting any better, so I let my husband take me to the ER. I had a EKG? and was told I had had an aneurisym. I was rushed to a different hospital where a doctor there had some experience with the treatment. The next day I had a coil put in. I was extremely lucky. I have no side effects whatsoever and I actually survived. I have a second one, but at this
ReplyDeletetime it's not big enough to burst. I'm so grateful that I got another chance to still be alive. To see my son graduate college. And
to just smell the roses everyday. That experience was a life changer.
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Julianne, I don't know a lot about aneurysms other than they are so deadly dangerous, but I reckon you must have had a guardian angel with you that day you passed out and survived to find the correct diagnosis! I can certainly imagine this sort of thing would change your outlook on life.
DeleteThank you so much for sharing.
I'm about to depart on the most exciting journey of my life! I'm moving to the Caribbean island of Antigua to work in my dream job! I'm going on my own, too. I've always wanted to live in Caribbean and the job is most certainly my dream job and the culmination of 5 years of very hard work!! Great question!
ReplyDeleteCongrats on the book release,
MJ
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MJ, sounds like you have one exciting journey ahead of you! And isn't it all the more satisfying to achieve something that you've spent time working hard for?
DeleteLive your dream and enjoy! :-)
memorable journey's in life so far is about 4 years ago.. in 2008 .. My whole friend at collage and I, went to Denpasar, Bali, Indonesia to studying and holiday at the same time... We travelled from Jakarta to Denpasar by Bus... and during the trip.. we learned how to be a Tour Guide (we are Tourism Major Student)... I get a lot of experianced there with My friend and lecture... I get so much lesson from that trip... hahhaa.. very memorable because we can't did it again that trip together.. after our graduation... we rare spent our time together again.. ^^
ReplyDeleteHuaahh... I Miss them now... x)
Wow, now that's called a working holiday, Astri! LOL Getting experience while on a trip of your own. Sad to hear you haven't had as much time as you'd like catching up with them after your studying. I do hope you keep in touch via email or snail mail though. Maybe one day you'll all meet up again.
DeleteThanks for sharing your memories.
A memorable journey was a family trip to Hawaii. It was very fun.
ReplyDeleteOh, Hawaii, with family! Now that sounds like a hoot of a time, bn100!
DeleteFor me the most memorable (sharable) journey was to Egypt where I met my husband of twenty-six years. Definitely a life changing adventure LOL Thank you for sharing with us. I am looking forward to reading Alliance Forged :)
ReplyDeleteDenise, what a wonderful place to meet your future husband! Egypt is one country I'd LOVE to travel to and explore but I'd love to do it with friends.
DeleteDid you meet your DH on holiday or was it work related? Sounds like a very interesting story in a wonderful country!
Definitely Motherhood...seeing myself through the eyes of a child is a humbling and often scary experience!!
ReplyDeleteBut its also the most rewarding :)
Hey, Cath! *waving* There have been a few motherhood milestones here so you're in good company! While I'm not yet a mother myself, there have been precious times in the classroom with the kids, and it makes teaching all the more rewarding, so I sort of get what you mean. :-)
DeleteWhen I was 11 years old, my Father had long service leave. We packed up the car & we tented our way around Australia for several months. It was brilliant, especially with my Mother navigating. She assured us we were never lost, just taking an interesting side trip.
ReplyDeleteAs for a life lesson, I have learned along the way that I am strong.
Marybelle, what an incredible experience travelling around Australia! I think this is something I would like to try - one day. Nothing like being out camping with nature or whereever and it would certainly teach you some good lessons about what you're capable of doing.
DeleteRaising my son would have to be my most best experience. He's the best, but now I know what my poor mom went through, and I only had him.
ReplyDeleteSounds like you've had some lovely/memorable times with your son, Lona.
DeleteI think most parents would have a grin at your last statement. But at least you know what you got up to as a child and can anticipate what your own might get up to! :-)
My life changing experience was going to the hospital for the first time as a med student, sure you have the guidance of your teacher/doctor but you realize some day or time a life will be in your hands, you will have to thing fast, be strong and always, always, try to do your best for others. (ileana-rafflecopter)
ReplyDeleteGisele, I've trained as a junior ambulance officer (as part of a Community First Responder program for isolated communities with one of the emergency service groups I'm a member of) and I totally get what you mean when you say about having the responsibility of someone's life in your hands. It's a nerve-racking experience every time my team gets called out to an emergency.
DeleteEach and every one of those call outs play a significant impact on my life so I can imagine the responsibility and important role you undertake as a med student!
My most memoriable experience so far had been when my aunt took me for my 16th bday to see my first broadway play "Wicked"! It was amazing. We were right in the front! Thank you so very much for the contest!!!
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A live performance on Broadway!!! Oh, I'm so jealous of you Kim!!!! It's been far too long since I saw my last live show. But how amazing is it to sit so close to the action and see a show for the first time. Sort of leaves you awestruck, doesn't it?
DeleteGood luck in the draw! :-)
When me and family going vacation on another country. Learned about different cultures and language, and lost in that country to....*uhuk* LOL!!
ReplyDeleteHey, now getting lost in another country mightn't sound like fun at the time but I bet you learned a few things from that experience, Filia!
DeleteMy husband and I went for a walk and we found someone who was trying to pull someone back over the bridge who was trying to jump off and was half dangling, My husband managed to help the guy pull the person back over while I called the police, It makes you think about life a bit more and how precious it is really.
ReplyDeleteHoly Moly! That's not exactly your every day sight to see while on a walk. A good thing you and your DH happened along at the right time to help!
DeleteHi Kylie! Thanks so much for being here!! I was just telling Eden the other day how proud I was of her for making her dream come true of becomming an author and I can just imagine how proud you were of yourself for making that same dream come true as well. Alliance Forged sounds amazing and the cover completely eye catching. Yet another wonderful read to be put at the top of my tbr list. :D
ReplyDeleteG'day, Delilah - Eden's news was exciting wasn't it? Hard work and persistence pays off for sure! Stubbornness is also a major ingredient. You need it to power through on the days when you begin to doubt whether you'll ever see your work in print. :-)
DeleteSo glad you like the premise and the cover of Alliance Forged!
Best life altering event - Having my daughter!! I had her when i was 33 and it was a huge life change for me.
ReplyDeleteHaving children certainly is life changing, no doubt about it. :-)
DeleteThe Best Thing I Ever Did Is My Children I Love Them.
ReplyDeleteI Mean Giving Birth To My Children.
DeleteHi April, thanks for joining in and sharing your life changing moment.
DeleteI have to say getting married to my husband is my life altering event. He is stubborn and so am I so while I am glad I got married it is constantly a challenge and a compromise.
ReplyDeleteAny relationship, but particularly marriage, is a challenge, and compromise and communication play important roles in maintaining it!
DeleteI love writing about the constant tug and pull in a romance, seeing what my characters do and how they want their relationships to go then observe what actually happens - sometimes it just doesn't pan out the way they want it to. LOL
Thanks, Rachel!
Raising my two kids has been my most amazing and challenging journey.
ReplyDeleteHi Maureen, children are amazing and my hat goes off to any parent!
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ReplyDeleteMy life altering event was coming to terms with and admiring that my mother is an alcoholic. As a teenager I didn't realize the problem for what it was. All I knew was that my mom was "cool" because I didn't have a lot of rules or restrictions when really she just didn't care. I decided that was not the kind pf person I wanted tobe and was actually able to help my mom instead of following her path.
Woah, Julie, that's a huge realisation and decision - good on you for setting your own path but for also being courageous enough to help your mum. Not easy at all. I hope it's working out for you both.
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ReplyDeleteI've had a lot of changes in my life. I moved to California when I was 19 and giving birth to my three sons 1st is 25, 2nd is 22 and the 3rd will be 21 next month. They're light of my life. I've been thru two marriages that ended in divorce. I think that was when I really discovered who I really was. I've had three major surgery's in the four years now my life is changing yet again. I have to learn to let people help me because I limited to what I can do so a big challenge for me I'm so used to doing every thing myself. Well life is still good I'm healthy and I know there are other people that are in worse shape then me.
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Hi Byerc - you've certainly had your fair share of milestones/life changing events to recount. It's amazing how many we all have when we sit down and think about them - some good, some not so good, some small but that definitely impact us. Thanks for sharing!
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